Sunday, October 18, 2009

I'll strengthen thee, help thee, and cause thee to stand!

Today Mom was able to make it to Sacrament Meeting. When we drove up to the Church, she didn't want to park in the handicapped stalls even though we had a permit. Mom enjoyed being at Church again, and seeing her dear neighbors and friends who have been so kind and thoughtful and helpful! She commented on the way home about how special her ward is. We couldn't agree more!!!

We have seen much improvement in Mom just since yesterday. She is alot more stable walking around the house, and we don't worry quite as much about her getting up and down. Good thing too, since she doesn't sit in one place for long! When Jim Jr. came to visit he remarked that she is probably getting more therapy at home than she ever would in the hospital! She is working very hard to be independent, and even tried to do the dishes tonight. At dinner she laboriously tried to eat with her right hand, which is quite a bit weaker than her left. She said she needs to learn how to do things, so she didn't want any help. It is frustrating to her, but she is definitely trying.

Although she is improving, it remains a full time job for Dad to keep up with everything. We need to find some way for him to have a break for a bit each day, since this is non stop. As I said yesterday, Mom can do a LOT of things, but some steps are just plain missing, and she needs constant supervision. Although we are thrilled beyond measure to have her home and can see daily improvement, this will be a long process.

Despite the enormity of the task, we know things will work out. Today as I sat in Sacrament Meeting I was very touched by the words to a familiar hymn - How Firm a Foundation. I've sung it hundreds of times throughout my life, but it has never had more meaning than today:

Fear not, I am with thee; oh, be not dismayed
For I am thy God and will still give thee aid.
I'll strengthen thee, help thee, and cause thee to stand,
Upheld by my righteous, omnipotent hand.

He has truly strengthened and helped Mom, and caused her to stand. We know He will continue to be at her side.

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