No go

We are sorry to report that, despite some amazing progress, Mom did not qualify for intensive rehab during the evaluation this morning. Although at one time or another we have seen her do most everything they are requiring, she didn't perform well enough during the evaluation. The hospital feels she is stable medically, and doesn't require further hospitalization. The only other option they offer is intensive rehab and they don't feel she has the stamina required. They have given us until Wednesday to choose another facility. We spent this afternoon visiting some nursing facilities, but don't feel we have found the right place yet.

Mom, on the other hand, had a pretty great day. Dad took her out by the fountain for almost half an hour, and then she stayed in the chair for quite some time after returning to her room. She was also able to move her feet for the therapist as he stood her up, and she ate quite a bit of her meals. In addition, she has begun using the fingers on her right hand!!! She looked so comfy with both of her hands tucked under her chin instead of laying flat at her side.

We think she looks and sounds more like our Mother each day. Today was Randy's birthday, and although she saw him at the hospital earlier in the day, Mom wanted to call and wish him a Happy Birthday again tonight. She had a great phone conversation with him, and then talked with Jim Jr. and me for another half hour. Today's alertness is in sharp contrast with a few days ago. Last Friday, we requested that they stop giving her the sleeping medication, and as of tonight we requested that they stop giving her the "wake-up" medication as well. (The list of side effects includes drowsiness, hallucinations, mood swings and depression, to name a few. Sounds like a great way to wake up, now doesn't it?) Hopefully she will be even more clear-headed as a result.

Thank you for all your faith and prayers. Although the evaluation doesn't reflect it, Mom is progressing in leaps and bounds. Upward and onward!